Approach to Address Family Problems

Family disharmony is the dreaded by one family. The number of families potentially cause problems in family disharmony. In an effort to cope with family problems (disharmony), several approaches can be used separately or integrated and multidisciplinary.

1. Psychodynamic approach
This approach seeks to understand what happened and why to arise or occur under such circumstances. Understanding the background of what the problem can be used to determine the steps to improve, develop and direct, so that changes occur as expected.
This approach would give answers about the "what", "why", "how" of a problem, (eg about disharmony in the family) and "by what" can be overcome.
2. Approach Behavioristic
An approach that focuses on the effort to overcome the symptoms (behavioral / psychological) that there is, as it appears, without the need to factor in the occurrence or "mengapanya" but directly to the symptoms. In this case needs to be associated with the principles in education or the learning process and changes are expected to occur. A symptom is considered as a product of previous learning processes that affect. Therefore, this process can be influenced by learning something else or something new to overcome or change the behavior symptoms, as expected.

3. Gestalt Approach
The approach focuses on the whole, the personality as a totality that exceeds the number of aspects of its aspects. Although the problem is contained in something or some aspect of personality aspects, but can not be seen, only on one particular aspect only. Rather it should be made to the personal as a unity or whole.

4. Counselling Approach
Through a relationship or an ongoing conversation, a person may be directed fatherly think or behave as expected. The processes of imitation (imitation), suggestion, pelegaan supportive even through the disclosure of state one's feelings (catharsis).

5. The approach through religion
A strong faith and belief is a source of strength to overcome or face the things that are not good. Religion is also the basis and cornerstone of all behavior that people do not chaotic, hesitant and easily influenced by negative stimuli coming from outside.

Similarly, some approaches that we can do in overcoming the problems of family disharmony. This is just the approach course, the problem you're the only family who knows what should be the approach to get it done. Most important is our intention to continue to improve and enhance the quality of the family.

"If we can not get along well with people, then at least once do not find fault in others, but look at yourself."
"All envy or malice, is basically a filing sense rencah yourself against people who envied."
(Brown W.J.)

Bibliography
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